PhoenixaaNever ending Relationships !

Relationship is the name of trust , if there is no trust in a relationship then that kind of relationship is of no use as everything in this world is based on trust , if you are in some business then you have to trust on your clients otherwise you can’t do business , this is how world processes run . In a relationship its very necessary that couple have a good trust between them . For building trust you have to compromise of some things .

I am not saying that only one person have to compromise instead both husband and wife have to compromise to meet the destiny of their relationship . Such relation live for long time and no one can break such relationship .

Why you see too many people getting divorce day by day , this is all because there is no trust in their relationship and they break up on small issues .  Compromise is another name of strong and long life relationship .

For building trust you have to support your partner and you have to understand they he/she need , you have to give your partner time and you have to understand the way he/she like to live and then you have to adjust your routine accordingly . This is all what make a relationship like a strong chain !

Perhaps it’s in the common nature of the humans that they always like the opposite sex .If you are male then you will have attraction toward females and if you are female then you will like to have some male lol .It’s the natural things which no one can deny . But there are some limits for humans , like if you are small and your parents don’t want you to get married even you are not that small and you can manage your marriage life and can give all the happiness to your wife , still then you are bound because of your parents decision . Parents are right on their point because if you will have no identity in the market then no one will marry you and you will have financial problem if you will will marry . So, the good thing is that you carry on your education and don’t get married before you get some good job . When you think that you are financial strong and you can complete all the requirements of your home then go for a marriage !!
Now how come you can survive in such a environment where there are beautiful girls and boys ? – when you see some beautiful girl or boy in the market then you think something wrong with this guy/girl and in your imagination you think of all the things with this girl . Yes that’s the human common psychology and no one can change it . Now how we can give pleasure to our soul ? – there are a lot of ways , the one way which is adopted most of the people is that of using some tools to keep their sensation in control , like they can have the same enjoyment using this tool and they can mentally satisfy their souls with this method .

The world is like stage and we all are performing here is a good quote by Shakespeare but in this world sometime we need to look into our own lives for better output . Not all of us are just performing but some of us are dis obeing our duties like the very first duty of us is to better take care of our life partner and to provide every kind of facility to him/her . Beside all we should be loyal to our life parters .

There are lots of people who love their life partner a lot in the start of relationship but after couple of months they ger divorce just because of small issues which is really bad . While you marry you take the oath that you will always give happiness to your life partner then why some people divert from the track , this is is out of my understanding scope .

Husband should provide every kind of facility to her wife if she is a house wife and not a working women ,  if she is a working women then husband should share the responsibilities with her and in this regard wife should also give time to her husband because if she will not give time to her husband then he might go out for the search of fun , so to be on safe side give him a pleasure he need .

I hope you will take care of all this in future , hope this will help !

A chain is strong when someone tries to break it by hand but it get weaken when someone try to break it using some tool , relations are also same – its strong when its bound by lots of other relations but it gets weaken when its alone . After marriage , the very first wish of the couple is to have some babies but not all of us are fortunate in this world and some of us don’t get child because of some sexual mismatch , and they could create a family for themselves !

Such cases have been noticed and observation reveal that relationship become weaker between couples having such situation and in most of the cases Divorce was done .

I think we should not limit our thinking upto this level , there are lots of orphans children who need parents for their better life , we should adopt them to give them a goodlife and to choose the best for ourselves – There are solution of every kind of problem in this work and we should think broader to get the solution . I hope this will help !

Upon investing lots of marriage registrar office records I have observed that Divorce ratio has been increasing with the passage of time which is not good at all , there could be lots of reasons behind this but the main reason which I think is the increase of population and the increase of marriage which in turn bringing the high percentage in comparison of the last year .

The other thing which could be possible is the increase of female births which in turn increases the population of girls as compared to boys – boys have the better change to divorce a girl and get married with another one which is not good . We have to complete our promise we have made in the court and have to make our bride happy .

Its our duty and those who are not performing their duties well should be punished – Wedding is promise of lifetime not for some years , Govt should bring some law for such idiots . I hope we can better make this place a good one for spending our lives .