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Tips for Speed Dating
Posted by | Posted in Dating, Other, Relationship | Posted on 01-01-2011

In addition to using online dating is enjoying lately, especially the speed-dating for singles seeking ever more popular. Often, in the run, however, the question of whether and how to put on such a single event at the best prepared.
The following tips for singles will serve as a small policy to be successful at the Speed Dating:
Smile
The best way to make a good impression is to smile. Psychologists and body language experts said that this is the most effective way to seek work even more attractive.
The effect of color
Colors can also have a positive effect on one’s own charisma. Red is seen, for example, as the stimulating of all colors, which can even result in a higher heart rate in comparison. Psychologists have also discovered that men who wear the color blue, are often by women as a particularly honest, loyal and considered reliable. Not surprising then that women who are looking for a long-term partnership, might feel drawn to this candidate is but rather are considered reliable and monogamous.
Body language
Not only the spoken word is used for communication. Equally important is the observance of proper body language with which you are constantly sending out signals, and thus communicated. All the more reason, therefore, to be aware of this effect, so as not to unwittingly send the wrong signals. An open body language points to an open person. For example, quickly folded arms indicate boredom or restraint. A caller to the open arms to lean forward a possible witness on the other hand however, of openness and interest.
Notes
It is recommended in any case, write the name of the person next to the number. What must actually bring some reason the other person by another, is also easy for the organizer of the event the opportunity to clear up any confusion. It should also be avoided, to leave the dating map open during the dates.
First things first …
Are there any criteria that the / the soul mate / partner should definitely fulfill a dream or properties to be present in any case? You can not imagine living with a smoker to be together? You are allergic to cats? Try out these issues as quickly as possible, which saves a lot of trouble later.
The right questions
Again and again the same questions as “Where are you from?”, “What are you working?” Are just boring in the long run. And a boring conversation and thus the interlocutors are in a speed-dating is not necessarily the best conditions for a positive match. be funny, or perhaps unusual questions such as “What is your best friend would say about you?” can often be much more informative and amusing.
Standards in conversation
The simplest rules of behavior in conversation, the name of the correspondent noted listen carefully and not too much / just to be told. To support a pleasant flow of conversation, it is also advisable always to answer your question as well as providing open questions. One of the most important principles is to lay the focus of the conversation to the other party, by as much as possible about him, rather than “self-promotion to operate. Everyone likes to talk about things that he likes. So find out what the other party likes to do!
The right attitude – have fun!
At best we consider each Date is not a challenge, but simply a nice way to get to know interesting people and any amount that may be new friends to win a few. Also, a conversation with someone with whom you can not really into the conversation would come perhaps otherwise can be quite interesting and is something different. This setting can be very compressed in the evening go without. And if one or more other date is, this is a great bonus!



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